How to be smart about dating
So seek out some good dating resources and put in the same amount of zealous effort that you've put into your achievements all your life, and you will be rewarded. Evolution decrees that in the mating dance, the male pursues and the female is pursued. So be less interested in her than she is in you, or at least pretend you are, so she has a chance to move towards . It's not some kind of god-given talent that you're either born with or without.That's also when my career as a professional virgin came to an end. Mom, dad, the sex-ed teacher - none of them had taught me any of this stuff. People only love us for who you are, not who we pretend to be. To understate things, I was a late bloomer in the realm of romance. This is a serious omission, since our relationships with others are the biggest determinants of happiness in our lives. I know it's fashionable amidst the smart set to be dissatisfied with yourself and to keep striving for more, bigger, best. Casper has been dating 30-year-old Paige Hathaway for the last couple of months.She's a fitness model/entrepreneur who's not only drop dead gorgeous, but also has a bod that rivals Casper's ex, Jennifer Lopez.Casper and J Lo called it quits in August 2016 after several years of dating, but clearly there was no need for pity tears.Casper and Paige -- the creator of Fitin5 Challenge with 4 million Instagram followers -- just flew to Miami together for one of his events where she was his plus one.
Casper Smart tells TMZ Sports there's ZERO jealousy or animosity or bitterness at Alex Rodriguez for dating his ex-girlfriend, Jennifer Lopez ... And most things in life don't follow linear equations - not your breath, not your heartbeat, not your Apple stock, and most certainly not women and romance. Sometimes she'll come to you when you ignore her and leave when you declare your undying love - deal with it. So he's bewildered when the jock/frat boy gets the girl and he does not. A woman will like you based on how you you make her feel. Unlike thermodynamics, women are not intuitively obvious. A smart guy values smarts above all - and thinks the rest of the world does, too. Write that down, engrave it on a plaque, tattoo it on your forehead backwards so you'll read it every time you brush your teeth in the morning. So this goes out to all my boys out there at places like Harvard, Princeton, Yale, Stanford, MIT, Columbia, Duke, Swarthmore, Penn, Cornell, Berkeley, Brown, Dartmouth, Oxford, and Cambridge. To all you who work at the likes of Google, Amazon, Microsoft, D. Shaw, Mc Kinsey -- all the geeks, nerds, grad students, techies, hackers, engineers and gadgeteers.